Why are the simple things the most difficult to do? Over the years, during Lent especially, I have thought of trying to remember to say a quick grace before meals. This has proven to be extremely difficult for me. I have an easier time remembering to say a rosary on most days, than I do saying grace before meals.
Part of this might be that one can say a rosary almost anywhere at almost any time. I tend to say the rosary while I drive long distances. I sometimes say it before Mass, or before I go to sleep. At times, like last night, I wake up and can't go back to sleep. A rosary will quiet my mind and relax my soul enough to get the rest I need.
Saying grace before meals is not something I can remember to do in the middle of the night, or at Mass, or while driving--although I confess I've eaten my share of meals in the car!
Saying grace is such a deceptively simple thing. It used to be part of the fabric of many family's lives. Something done almost without realizing it. Now, food is more readily available, more quickly eaten--and more often--and regular grace before meals is rare.
Thus, I come to my regular resolution to include prayer before meals in my day. I think, rather than say a prescribed prayer, I will use the time to connect with God, thank Him for the meal before me, and offer up my concerns to Him. Almost like a lay person's liturgy of the hours--prayer at regular times throughout the day.
Sounds wonderful. I have had several books of graces that I keep on my kitchen table. When we eat as a family, I say grace (or someone else might actually volunteer to read from the book). We used to take turns but then sometimes the kids, "didn't feeeeeel like it." The problem with us is that when we are away from the table (unfortunately a lot during the summer) Grace is forgotten. It's a wonderful practice though. Food is a gift.
ReplyDeleteMy college room mate and I used to exchange different graces that we knew. It was really cool.
ReplyDeleteWhen DH and I say grace we use the traditional "Catholic" grace but we also take a few moments to remember in prayer folks who have asked for our prayer or who we know need prayer. It really has increased my focus on the importance of remembering others as well as being thankful.
ReplyDeleteI'm noticing that too, LC. It is really reminding me to remember everyone I come across who needs prayer.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed your thoughts on simplicity. I especially love the picture of the Monks in prayer! Looks like simplicity at its finest!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Ann! I agree--monks and cloistered nuns are great examples of simplicity.
ReplyDeleteGood for you! Remember it takes something like 21 days to make a new action a habit! So hang in there!!
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